Our First “From You”: “Belonging to Yourself”
From time to time, our clients bring in articles, books, essays, or other materials that they have found especially helpful in work we are doing. Since one of the most valuable reviews is from someone who has been there, we’d like to share the helpfulness with others who may need it!
Today’s link is an article by Celeste Scott. It features an aspect of self-parenting: learning to belong to yourself instead of waiting for permission or approval from others.
To learn about other aspects of self-parenting (or self-re-parenting) in adulthood, read more on our blog here.
Methodist Church Votes to Maintain Opposition to LGBTQ
In St. Louis this week, 53% of Methodist delegates voted to continue the “traditional model,” which opposes same-sex marriage and LGBT clergy, leaving some LGBTQ members and clergy excluded and heartbroken.
WaPo coverage at Twitter link below, and here: UMC Vote.
If you would like to make an appointment for pastoral counseling with our newest colleague, LGBT-supportive Methodist pastoral counselor, Rev. Dr. John G. Smith, please contact us by email or phone.
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Civil Rights Progress: Natural Hair Finally Protected Legally
Natural hair finally accepted in 2019 as a legal right in NYC:
Depression and Mood Screening Clinic 2/28-3/1
Wondering if you have depression or a mood disorder?
Give us a call or email to set up an appointment with one of our caring mental health professionals for a brief screening during our depression and mood disorders screening clinic.
Depression can be treated–it’s not “laziness” or a character flaw!
Give yourself a chance to be involved in your own life (and enjoy it more)! ❤
Rare George Washington Carver Film Clips
Rare footage of George Washington Carver. An amazing man:
Anxiety Disorder Screening Clinic 2/25-2/26
Wondering if you have an anxiety disorder?
Give us a call or email to set up an appointment with one of our caring mental health professionals for a brief screening during our anxiety disorders clinic.
Anxiety is very treatable, no matter how intense or how mild!
Let yourself move forward in your life instead of “spinning your wheels.” ❤
Happy Valentine’s Day! Practice Loving Kindness for Mental Health
Be loving to yourself and to others: Mental illness deserves as much care as any other illness or injury. It’s not “laziness” or being “weak” or flawed in character. Practice acceptance and support instead of criticism.
Mental illness is usually unlike the movies. Cultivate loving kindness to yourself instead of judgment and criticism. [Try Loving Kindness meditation by Tara Brach to spread love to self and others.]
Remember that mental illness often affects every aspect of a person’s life and health.
It Takes Courage to Overcome a Phobia
Image: Courage the Cowardly Dog
Phobias are irrational or excessive fears. If a phobia interferes with someone’s everyday life, it may be anywhere from annoying to debilitating. Other phobias will only come up once every so often, so they are less intrusive.
If a phobia interferes with an everyday or essential activity–such as dental work, flying, or animals–a person might choose to get treatment in order to overcome it. Phobias can be treated by exposure treatment, an intervention in which the person is exposed to tolerable aspects of the phobia in a safe environment until their anxiety diminishes.
First, the treatment focuses on exposure to the least anxiety provoking aspects of the phobia, as determined by the patient in a “hierarchy of fear.” The accompanying anxiety is addressed until it diminishes to tolerable levels, however long that takes.
Then, and only then, does the exposure move to increasingly more anxiety provoking aspects of the phobia. This may take days, weeks, or even months, depending on the nature of the phobia and the person’s level of anxiety.
An example of a phobia hierarchy based on items generated by clients working in exposure treatment:
Just thinking about exposure treatment may be anxiety provoking enough to count as exposure!
As a certain little pink dog has taught us, it takes courage to face your fears. Being courageous doesn’t mean not being afraid, it means taking action, even if it feels scary to begin.